tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post4942725463800593645..comments2023-09-22T23:19:31.202+05:30Comments on Blogito, Ergo Sum: "Save Indian Family" - An Anti-Women Organisation?Subhangi Arvindhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11773126203364505413noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-85831718187803385352007-07-06T16:19:00.000+05:302007-07-06T16:19:00.000+05:30I am glad to see you are vocal about gender equali...I am glad to see you are vocal about gender equality.<BR/><BR/>If you are serious about this, why don't you join hands with SIF?<BR/><BR/>Maybe you can bring in a woman's perspective, which may help us in achieving the larger cause.<BR/><BR/>Interested? Let me know.<BR/><BR/>Aside, I am curious to know what you are, what you do etc. I am a Bangalore based software professional.<BR/><BR/>Regards,<Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-88672220030448279212007-06-23T08:47:00.000+05:302007-06-23T08:47:00.000+05:30Thanks for your response, Brown Suga. I do underst...Thanks for your response, Brown Suga. I do understand where your misapprehensions come from. I was worried too like you at one point. It is probably natural. However, being part of SIF actually gave me a better idea of the bigger picture and why SIF looks and works the way it does. Anyway, it is nice to exchange thoughts with you. <BR/><BR/>Best wishesAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-68736536665747806972007-06-21T13:26:00.000+05:302007-06-21T13:26:00.000+05:30Thank you all for your comments and clarifications...Thank you all for your comments and clarifications, especially the members of SIF.<BR/><BR/>Let me clarify that I am not a feminist. I absolutely agree that absolute power corrupts and we have several examples to prove that, both among men and women. I simply believe in equal rights and doing anything to foster that. I have repeatedly tried to state this throughout the post, yet I have been Subhangi Arvindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11773126203364505413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-79932034173568705122007-06-21T09:26:00.000+05:302007-06-21T09:26:00.000+05:30Hi, I have been a member of SIF and wd like to ass...Hi, I have been a member of SIF and wd like to assure that this organization is completely Pro family and does not carry any bias against women. Infact in every family which is impacted by the blatant misuse of the fiercely pro-women laws, there are plenty of women including the old women as well.However the laws are so biased against men, that in order to save us from the onslaught of such laws,Manoj K Rawathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06382476841900598497noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-52244751722743470582007-06-21T01:11:00.000+05:302007-06-21T01:11:00.000+05:30You wrote - "I agree many men also suffer harassme...You wrote - "I agree many men also suffer harassment, but their numbers and the degrees of harrassment are far less."<BR/>Need I say more about where you are coming from or where you are going to, in your logic [sic]. All beginnings of fascism will always start with this justification.<BR/><BR/>When it comes to equality before law, that is that - total equality. Even if one individual is Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-9059108186257785792007-06-21T01:00:00.000+05:302007-06-21T01:00:00.000+05:30Mam,Do you have the data to support that more wome...Mam,<BR/><BR/>Do you have the data to support that more women are suffering compared to men? even if you get some data let me tell you many men do not come and report that they are being harrassed, because our indian society makes fun of a man who is being harassed by wife and MIL.<BR/><BR/>Feminists had been crying foul since a long time about woman liberation, rights and all.<BR/><BR/>Woman Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-70983381953552727082007-06-20T20:48:00.000+05:302007-06-20T20:48:00.000+05:30I think both feminists and communists are alike in...I think both feminists and communists are alike in a sense they have no respect to the sanctity of the family system.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-2691660704767622062007-06-20T19:25:00.000+05:302007-06-20T19:25:00.000+05:30save indian family is about stopping the oppressio...save indian family is about stopping the oppression of both the sexes, not just men.<BR/><BR/>it's not only men who are oppressed when a false dowry case or domestic violence act is filed. the entire family of a husband, particularly the mother, sisters, and children are oppressed.<BR/><BR/>all the members of save indian family are against dowry. is that why they are being oppressed? some call Humanisthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16249529359030358123noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-25534720223785056832007-06-20T16:57:00.000+05:302007-06-20T16:57:00.000+05:301. SIF is not anti-women. It is against "unscrupul...1. SIF is not anti-women. It is against "unscrupulous" women only. There's a difference! It is also pro-family which implicitly means harmonious matrimonial relationships. Step back, and understand the difference.<BR/><BR/>2. Heard of this? "Two wrongs don't make a right". Agreed that we have had an oppressive patriarchal society in the past.<BR/><BR/>Will an equally oppressive 'matriarchal' Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-22669950520987585172007-06-18T20:39:00.000+05:302007-06-18T20:39:00.000+05:30Save Indian Family is anti-feminist but not anti-w...Save Indian Family is anti-feminist but not anti-women. It is feminists who have dubbed anti-feminism as anti-women, thus shutting up anyone speaking up against the evils of feminism. You may want to learn a little more about the feminist movement and the feminist representatives who hold powerful positions in the Governments world over to understand the damages done to the society by feminism. <Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-85776033033717088602007-06-18T11:49:00.000+05:302007-06-18T11:49:00.000+05:30Hi Firstly SIF is not an anti Women, some of promi...Hi <BR/><BR/>Firstly SIF is not an anti Women, some of promiment members of SIF are women, you find the venmon becuase most of the men have gone through such atrocties <BR/>We are not against the law for protection of women , we are against the misuse of the law and the sorry state of affair is that this laws only consider Wife as the women and ignres atrocities on mothers , sister and children Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-45109891060639085772007-06-18T10:56:00.000+05:302007-06-18T10:56:00.000+05:30Anonymous-I clearly mentioned in my post that I wa...Anonymous-<BR/><BR/>I clearly mentioned in my post that I was glad to see the site was pro-men until I found out it was anti-women. Please read it again.<BR/><BR/>However, a humble request - I would like a little more clarification on why you think I'm a communist. This blog is pretty open - you can drop the anonymity and post as long a comment you want. But if you're going to label me as a Subhangi Arvindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11773126203364505413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-22106738139622233872007-06-18T10:47:00.000+05:302007-06-18T10:47:00.000+05:30Situ Mistry - In the above post, I have clearly sa...Situ Mistry - <BR/><BR/>In the above post, I have clearly said towards the end <I>"I completely agree unscrupulous women do misuse the laws provided, especially the Domestic Violence act. But the fact remains that they are oppressed to a much larger extent than men are, and while it is a good thing that someone is talking about how many new pro-women laws tilt the balance unfairly in their favourSubhangi Arvindhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11773126203364505413noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-5400349907681560592007-06-17T22:30:00.000+05:302007-06-17T22:30:00.000+05:30Why you feminists alway tries to find wrongs in go...Why you feminists alway tries to find wrongs in goods things. May be you are more like communists who wants to destroy family.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-57835402291965275342007-06-17T19:48:00.000+05:302007-06-17T19:48:00.000+05:30Quite interesting...You are using the garb of equa...Quite interesting...You are using the garb of equal rights and yet imply at several instances that women need more protection as they are more oppressed...I feel using the definition provided by the DV act (drafted by the National Commision of Women)--men are way more oppressed..have you ever been verbally harassed by another woman...they can be significantly more vicious to the point of driving Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-16809427.post-84484212721083586762007-06-09T10:04:00.000+05:302007-06-09T10:04:00.000+05:30I like what you have written. I see no reason why ...I like what you have written. I see no reason why you should not be permitted and post in the "Save Indian Family" website. Men who are harassed also have sisters and mothers who are also affected by his state. SIF is not a male only bastion and should not turn into one.<BR/><BR/>The are bad men and bad women as there are good women and good men. Generalization and assumptions based on gender Ravihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01440015934989470536noreply@blogger.com